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SERVICES

SELF ESTEEM, ANXIETY and DEPRESSION

It’s debilitating.  You may feel incapable of making decisions, or feel like you are always the target of someone else’s bullying.  Anxiety can keep you from sleeping, eating or enjoying the things in life you see other people doing.  And depression can be exhausting, causing you to question why you are even here and leave you wondering how you’ll get through another day.

 

Yet there is more determination in you than you are probably aware of.  You have found your way through the fog and you are looking for a lifeboat.  I know it’s hard to put your trust in a complete stranger, but I promise you I will not let you down.  

How will we do that?  It really depends on you, and your specific situation.  You may need to work in a somatic way, and then we can process emotion through your body.  You may need to talk or cry or scream, in which case we will use a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy and relational psychotherapy to process events in your life.  Or you may not know what you need, or what is even wrong.  This is also ok, because throughout the course of our work together you will find a safe haven where you can begin to figure out what you want and how you can achieve it. 

TRAUMA THERAPY

It may not be comfortable for you to identify with the word “trauma".  You might think this word is reserved for others who may have had it much worse than you did.  Or that PTSD is only reserved for soldiers who fought in a war. 

 

 If you think it’s possible you may have experienced trauma, you are probably right.  Be it through childhood sexual abuse, childhood physical or emotional abuse, a verbally or physically abusive relationship, or a one-time traumatic event (such as a rape, car accident or earthquake), this trauma stays in your body.  Unfortunately, it can sometimes dictate your present-day happiness.  Trauma does this by actually hijacking your body, and forcing you to respond to people or situations based on your trauma memory.

 

 It’s bad enough that you had to live through this event, now it’s running your life?  Maybe it’s time to let it go.

 

You might wonder if you have to talk about “IT” when you come to therapy…the thing that happened.  It may have been so traumatizing to you that even thinking about it brings up intense anxiety for you.  The answer is no.  You don’t have to talk about it.  We can work in a very slow and gentle manner, sometimes working through the body to see where you are holding the trauma, and then learning how to release it.   

My goal is to make you feel safe, and you are always going to be in control and empowered in our work together.  We will work in a collaborative manner which will allow me to support you in the ways you need to be supported, as well as provide you with the tools you will need to combat the shame and terror that accompanies trauma.

OBSESSIVE-COMPULSIVE DISORDER

If you are suffering from OCD, I understand how this disorder can actually take over your life.  And if you are watching your child or other loved one suffer with their obsessions and rituals, I can understand how helpless you must feel. 

 

The good news is that there really is help!  Cognitive Behavioral Therapy has been proven to be extremely effective in identifying the thinking patterns that allow the obsessions and rituals to thrive.  It can be absolutely terrifying to even think about giving up your rituals.  The obsessions have become a way of life, and have reduced your anxiety enough to enable you to get by.  Unfortunately, the anxiety reduction lasts for a very short time.  Then the cycle starts all over again, and usually it actually gets worse over time.  

 

The compulsions, unwanted thoughts, images, avoidance techniques and doubts tend to require even more rituals to control them.  The shame, embarrassment and distress that accompanies this can become completely debilitating.  If you or someone you love is suffering like this, we can work together in a way that will allow you to view your thoughts differently, and ultimately you will have the strength to move past your rituals.  But you don’t need to do it alone.  

 

I will be by your side the entire way, and when we finally start to practice some Exposure and Response Prevention techniques, you will feel ready and excited to enter this new chapter of your life.  You can let this go, I promise you.  And you will be surprised to see that it will be easier than you ever thought!  

ADDICTION COUNSELING

If you are looking for substance abuse counseling, alcohol abuse counseling, sex addiction counseling, gambling addiction counseling or food addiction counseling, I’m sure you must be feeling incredibly overwhelmed by your addiction.  It’s probably all you think about, and it may start the second you open your eyes in the morning and dictate your every move.  

 

If you have tried 12-step groups, that is wonderful! And if you are in one now, that’s even better! One-on-one addiction counseling can work hand in hand with a 12-step group, or it can be extremely beneficial as a sole method of treatment.  

 

In our work together, we will have the opportunity to examine the big picture of your life.  You have this addiction for a reason, and I believe it came along to serve and protect you at some point.  However, now it’s probably not protecting you anymore and it’s hurting you.  Yet you can’t stop.  

 

Everything you have experienced in your life has impacted you, and together we will have the opportunity to pull apart and examine your life events to better understand what makes you who you are.  Believe it or not, even with your addiction you are a pretty phenomenal person.  Your addiction does not define you.  In our work together we will create a safe place for you to become the person you can finally be proud of, and who I know is right there waiting to be found.  

COUPLES COUNSELING

If you are have been thinking about marriage counseling or counseling for you and your partner, I commend your decision.  It can sometimes feel like acknowledging the fact that you need help means your relationship is in trouble.  However couples counseling is really the healthiest thing you can do for your relationship.  It means you care enough to do better!  And when two people care enough to understand one other better, there is no limit to how strong their relationship can become.

 

I work with both the Imago method and the Gottman method, two forms of psychodynamic therapy which will help develop a new way of listening and actually hearing what your partner is saying.  In turn, your partner will hear you in a new way, and this opens the door for compassionate teamwork between the two of you.

 

Fighting, screaming, ignoring, shutting down and defensive behaviors will no longer be the way the two of you operate.  No matter how angry or betrayed you may feel in your relationship, a new form of communication filled with respect, understanding and love is possible for the two of you.

 
 
 
 
 

TEEN COUNSELING

 

It’s not easy being a teenager.  Hormones are flooding your body and your brain is not yet fully developed, which leads to impulsivity and impaired decision making.  Teenagers have a need to individuate from their parents, but parents want to hold on and protect the babies they love so much.

 

Teens generally have no way of navigating the intense emotions that are running them.  They often turn to substances or harmful behavior as a way of turning down the noise, and providing relief from pressures they are not yet mature enough to navigate.  

 

Your teen may need to process their confusion and emotions with someone who is not entrenched in their family.  Being an unbiased person your teen can relate to, confide in and have fun with is what my teen therapy is about.  We will build a rapport with the goal of increasing self-esteem, making empowered decisions, and navigating relationships in a way that benefits everyone involved.  

 

It’s heart wrenching watching your kid suffer.  Sometimes being a good parent means you have to learn how to do things differently, lighten up on the reins, and listen to what your child is telling you.  And if they are telling you (through their behaviors) they need help,

I hope you will listen.

 

Pricing / Rates

$125 / Hour

Individuals

One on one time where we just focus on you.

$150 / Hour

Couples and Families

Couple work and family work has enormous benefits.  You may book 60 minutes or 90 minutes for these sessions, to ensure

everyone is heard.